Lonliness has got to me one of the most difficult things to deal with. Cause when your alone, all those thoughts that you’ve pushed way way way way way back to the back of your head float to the fore front of your mind. What ever it is you feel uncomfortable dealing with or thinking about will eventually want to be addressed. And if you don’t address it, it will manifest in someother way.
Some people start smoking, drinking, eating, shopping, going to the gym, hitting the clubs, WHATEVER IT TAKES just to avoid thinking about what ever it is.
But when you finally accept that you need to address it, you can feel so liberated once you’ve worked through it.
I’ve spoken to married women who cry about how lonely and unloved they feel. Single women who state the same, the only difference is they don’t have to cook for a man and wash his clothes lol. And as for men, they get lonely too, and their additional fixes often involve having affairs with other women. And I reckon it comes down to one thing.
WE JUST WANT TO FEEL LOOKED AFTER.
So be your best friend and be real to yourself. Let what ever it is thats eating away at you come to the surface. Write it down and then look at it. Be your best friend and look after yourself by giving yourself the answer.
People who want to be loved or need to be loved, often look after other people better than they do themselves.
My advice to me was give my affairs to Allah, because nothing or anything is going to rectify my affairs other than Allah SWT.