Do Muslim men need teaching on how to romance their wives???


Whilst sitting at my friends, my blogger finger started to twich when her partner came into the room and said, ‘There you go Baby’,  He placed a lovely hot chocolate with cream and said to me, ‘are you sure I can’t get you anything’.  I looked at my friend after he’d gone and said, ‘wow you got it good’. 

Now we all know that ultimatley if there was any man we’re striving to get our husbands to emulate its Prophet Muhammed SAW.  So lets see, did the prophet Muhammed SAW know how to treat his wives.  HE MOST CERTAINLY did, lets break it down.

He SAW would:

  • Pull out his miswak and clean his teeth before he entered his household
  • Comb his beard before he entered his household
  • Make sure he smelt good before he entered his household
  • enter the house with a smile
  • sow his own clothes
  • serve himself AND HIS FAMILY

So bringing my blog to a close DEAR BROTHERS, ain’t nothing wrong with you asking your wife if she wants a hot drink or even better to make her dinner.  And also monitor your appearance, do you look good, smell good.  Men often leave the house smelling good and looking good and come back with there sweaty tired selves. NOT COOL

My sisters/girlfriends do talk, and you find that the woman who is looked after best makes room to look her best.  Feeling loved, does wonders for one’s motivation to let your husband come home with a smile because he is pleased with what he see’s.





About iamshalina Shalina Litt was in the music business from the age of 15 years old and it wasn't until around 2006 that life took a big turn for her. She graduated with a BA Hons in Early Childhood Studies eager to do right by my son. Around 2006 she embraced Islam and took on a calmer lifestyle getting married and focusing on being a mother alongside a business woman. Her marriage dissolved due to domestic Violence in 2009 and she retook a different path learning how to rebuild my self esteem and confidence. This journey allowed Shalina to share her growth via blogs and vlogs building a large following around the topic of abuse. Around 2011 her career as a Radio Presenter at Unity FM began. As her confidence grew, she decided to speak out in international media defending the rights of Women and Hijab. This lead her to successfully be present in Media covering newspaper, TV, Radio and Magazines in addition to have been in a successful documentary done about 6 Muslim women from around the world by a TV Production Team (NRL) from the Netherlands. This public platform allowed her to be vocal about various heart felt topics through Social media and other broadcasting opportunities. As a result Shalina now coaches women around the topic of Abuse Resolution. She continues to appear in mainstream media discussing various topics around Islam and women. She also runs her own business providing Inclusive Islamic Education for SEND Children. She is currently recording an album and writing a book, both due to be released in 2017 God Willing. For more details or to contact Shalina Litt email

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