How i’d love to slap em!


I am so greatful to Allah for not punishing one for having thoughts in the head, and if anyone knows different then please advice me.  But joy oh joy do I have in playing a scene in my head of me slapping them in the face or landing a ‘Hy-you-kan’ on em. 

Fun and joke aside, being patient is one hell of a challenge but it is one of the most beautiful things to have certainty that remaining patient and silent will benefit you.  We do not always see justice in this life but it is guarenteed in Akhirah (the afterlife). 

This certainty gives me the strength to do what it takes to stay away from enacting the violent scenes that run through my hear.  Sometimes however I may look strange, lol.  The most common one is when I’m tested by my children, I think my son knows that when I stand in the middle of the room saying ‘Authu Billahhi Minashaytaan nira jeem’ which means I seek refuge with Allah from the accursed Shaytaan, he needs to go missing or stop doing what he is doing.

It easier said than done I know, but without doubt I’ve always seen the wisdom in Allah’s plans.  And there is so much mercy in Allah’s wisdom, for example Allah has guarenteed that the dua of the one who is oppressed will be answered.  So even if a non muslim wrongs you and they invoke to Allah, be scared cause Allah never breaks his (SWT) promise.


About iamshalina Shalina Litt was in the music business from the age of 15 years old and it wasn't until around 2006 that life took a big turn for her. She graduated with a BA Hons in Early Childhood Studies eager to do right by my son. Around 2006 she embraced Islam and took on a calmer lifestyle getting married and focusing on being a mother alongside a business woman. Her marriage dissolved due to domestic Violence in 2009 and she retook a different path learning how to rebuild my self esteem and confidence. This journey allowed Shalina to share her growth via blogs and vlogs building a large following around the topic of abuse. Around 2011 her career as a Radio Presenter at Unity FM began. As her confidence grew, she decided to speak out in international media defending the rights of Women and Hijab. This lead her to successfully be present in Media covering newspaper, TV, Radio and Magazines in addition to have been in a successful documentary done about 6 Muslim women from around the world by a TV Production Team (NRL) from the Netherlands. This public platform allowed her to be vocal about various heart felt topics through Social media and other broadcasting opportunities. As a result Shalina now coaches women around the topic of Abuse Resolution. She continues to appear in mainstream media discussing various topics around Islam and women. She also runs her own business providing Inclusive Islamic Education for SEND Children. She is currently recording an album and writing a book, both due to be released in 2017 God Willing. For more details or to contact Shalina Litt email

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