I am so greatful to Allah for not punishing one for having thoughts in the head, and if anyone knows different then please advice me. But joy oh joy do I have in playing a scene in my head of me slapping them in the face or landing a ‘Hy-you-kan’ on em.
Fun and joke aside, being patient is one hell of a challenge but it is one of the most beautiful things to have certainty that remaining patient and silent will benefit you. We do not always see justice in this life but it is guarenteed in Akhirah (the afterlife).
This certainty gives me the strength to do what it takes to stay away from enacting the violent scenes that run through my hear. Sometimes however I may look strange, lol. The most common one is when I’m tested by my children, I think my son knows that when I stand in the middle of the room saying ‘Authu Billahhi Minashaytaan nira jeem’ which means I seek refuge with Allah from the accursed Shaytaan, he needs to go missing or stop doing what he is doing.
It easier said than done I know, but without doubt I’ve always seen the wisdom in Allah’s plans. And there is so much mercy in Allah’s wisdom, for example Allah has guarenteed that the dua of the one who is oppressed will be answered. So even if a non muslim wrongs you and they invoke to Allah, be scared cause Allah never breaks his (SWT) promise.